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Nancy Stordahl's avatar

Hi Beth,

I'm sorry your doctor's retirement took you by surprise. I think it was wrong not to send out a letter to patients notifying them. Patients deserve that. This reminded me about the time my first oncologist left to practice elsewhere. I was notified via a letter, but it was still upsetting because it was such an abrupt change for me at the time. But at least I was told about it. Subsequently, I went through three or four oncologists. One in particular was a disaster, but I have one now that I really like.

I love the fact you took in Oliver. The painting you did of him and gifted is so good. And what a nice gesture, too. Oliver is a beautiful cat. Your newer portrait is coming along nicely. I can only imagine how difficult it is to paint fabric. I'm sure you'll grow in this skill too. I look forward to seeing how this painting of Oliver comes along.

And I'm glad you were satisfied with Snowscape enough to call it finished. That is one of my favorites!

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Beth L. Gainer's avatar

Thanks for your comment, Nancy. I appreciate it. I agree that I and other patients deserved to receive a letter that the doctor was retiring. I recently saw one of her replacements but it wasn't a fit, so I have to keep looking. The doctor didn't understand what a DIEP Flap was or even much about breast cancer. Wow.

I remember your revolving door of oncologists. That is so stressful. Especially the fact that these were oncologists. And you having a a nightmare oncologist! Boy can I relate to this. I sought out a second opinion oncologist and he was horrific.

Thanks for your nice words about my Oliver painting that I gifted to his veterinarian. I'm still unclear as how to paint fabric and am confused, but you are right: it is a skill set I can develop. Fingers crossed.

We are lucky to have Oliver. Pets are so awesome, as you well know.

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Alene N.'s avatar

I hear you on the physician thing. If they disappear suddenly and are younger, they might be burned out. I finally found a younger doctor since my old one switched practices and she seems to be good, but I always wonder how long she’ll stick around.

I love the painting of Oliver and the colors in it. Painting on fabric sounds like a challenge, but it looks fantastic!

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Beth L. Gainer's avatar

Thank you so much Alene. I really appreciate your insights. I think a lot of medical professionals experience burn out. Such a difficult career. Thanks for your kind comment about the painting of Oliver. Will be continuing to work on this one.

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Gerard Wozek's avatar

Hey Beth, best wishes on finding a new physician. When you have a long standing relationship with your core doctor, it’s so challenging to find a replacement. I wish you the best with this.

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Beth L. Gainer's avatar

Thank you, Gerry, for your kind wishes. I am seeing one potential replacement on Monday. I heard there were excellent tips for choosing a great doctor in the book Calling the Shots in Your Medical Care!

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